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WRITTEN BY: Moon



It might just be the prettiest trend you’ll never see. Oh, you might get a peek now and then, as a woman leans over a certain way and the glistening glow of her African waist beads makes a coy cameo appearance.


They’re everywhere, but “they’re not for show,” said Bowden, owner of Creative Waist Beads by Journey Armon (her children’s names) in Oakland. “In African tradition, waist beads are meant to be worn under clothing,” she said. “They’re for you. It’s personal. The meaning of the colors varies with every tribe — it’s kind of like visual dialects. And here in America it’s certainly a form of personal expression and individual interpretation. They’re for all women — any body type, any race, any background.”

Think of them as colorful strands of femininity — vibrant glass or clay beads, gemstones, pieces of horn, shells and sometimes gold or silver fittings, strung together by hand and tailored to embrace a woman’s individual midsection.


Yet they’re more than just pretty baubles. The hues — and the reasons for wearing them — bear myriad meanings and a modicum of mystery and folklore. While the practice dates back centuries in various regions of Africa, even depicted in Egyptian hieroglyphics and taking on different interpretations in other cultures, it has become increasingly popular in the United States during the past couple of years. Now waist beads are often sold at house parties and bridal showers in the style of Tupperware and Mary Kay — a sign they’ve clearly taken on trend status in American culture.


“(They’re) addictive,” Berryman said. “I’ve had women who get one strand then quickly come back for more.”


ADORN, APPRECIATE

A big reason for the modern popularity of waist beads is the sense of empowerment they provide over an area of the female form that’s often a source of physical discomfort or embarrassment over extra pounds.


“Most women have an issue with their middle section, and the last thing they want to do is draw more attention to that area,” said Sewra Kidane of Waist Beads by Sewra, who has been wearing and making the jewelry since 1999. She sells the beads at art shows all around the country and has a booming online business. “By putting on something very beautiful and adorning that area, you accept your body more, appreciate the beauty of it.”

Berryman says the beads are a wonderful way to combat the unrealistic body images women see in magazines and on fashion runways.


“So many things in the media are telling us not to be happy with who — and what shape — we are,” she said. Berryman started wearing beads in 2005 — a gift after her second child was born — and they immediately increased her self-confidence.


“I have stretch marks, and I don’t have the perfect body,” she said. “But it doesn’t matter if someone else doesn’t think I have the perfect shape. (The beads) honor that shape. Our midsection is our center of balance. We need to be aware of the womb area. We carry a lot of miracles in that section.”


STRANDS OF FOLKLORE

She now sells beads to women with waistlines from 20 to 65 inches and of all ages — from young women to clients in their 60s and 70s.


During an interview at her home studio last week, Bowden tugged up her tank top to reveal several strands of vibrant greens and blues swirling about her waist — colors that, to her, symbolize growth, humankind’s connection to the land and her own African heritage.

Historians believe the African tradition of waist beads may have originated among the Yoruba tribes, now mainly in Nigeria. But the practice is also seen in West Africa, notably Ghana, where the beads signify wealth and aristocracy, as well as femininity. Waist beads are also found in other cultures, and while African and Islamic women typically keep them under wraps, some display the beads over their clothes or on bare midriffs, such as belly dancers in Eastern cultures.


Beads, which are typically worn at all times — even while bathing or sleeping — can serve as symbols of sensuality, fertility and rites of passage, passed down from mother to daughter. There are superstitions about pregnancy and the energies of the Earth. Some see them as conveyors of positive energy and healing. Some wear them strictly for fashion. And still others choose them for the very practical use of weight control — when your beads are getting a little tight, it’s time to back off that blueberry muffin.


Jinina Knox, 40, of Oakland, a nurse who works with autistic children, bought her first set of beads a couple of years ago when Berryman gave a presentation at a bridal shower. Knox, not a small woman, loves the idea that the beads embrace all sizes, defying media images of what’s beautiful.


“I felt sexy the moment I put them on,” she said. “They are definitely not just for the skinny woman. You go walking naked past a mirror and see this gorgeous jewelry hanging on you. It makes you feel beautiful. They’re for the confident, vivacious woman, whatever size she is.”


WHAT THEY MEAN

While the colors in African waist beads are open to interpretation, some traditions equate certain qualities to various hues:


Blue: knowledge, healing, peace, truth, harmony — a cooling color symbolizing faith, devotion, deep insight.

Green: prosperity, hope, harmony, healing and ripening, encouraging the wearer to love nature and be generous, humble and self-controlled.

Red: self-confidence, vitality, sexual energy, passion, courage.

Yellow: wisdom, knowledge, clarity, increasing awareness and calming nerves.


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WRITTEN BY: Malon Mahotiere


Hey Queens!

Happy Sunday. Today is the beginning of a new week. We have 4 months not including August until the year is over and I must say this year has definitely been a transforming one for me. First, I’d like to point out that it has officially been 25 years since I lost my parents. To me, this is very significant because for so many years of my life I have been struggling with a lot as a result of their loss. I also wanted to point out that even though I am extremely grateful for my life, I still experienced something very traumatic at 18 months old.


People who survive traumatizing situations should be looked at in a different light because they are not the same person that they were before that event took place. This can vary from many trauma things such as car accidents, sexual assault and abuse, childhood trauma, domestic and family violence, and abuse.


I am the woman I am today because I made healing my own responsibility. Growing up, I never understood certain things about myself or my life. I did not understand why I was not normal like the other children I grew up around. When I became an adult, things became more clear for me. As I grow older, I learn more about myself and I learn more ways to heal with all the traumatic things that I have endured throughout my life.


Before it was officially 2020, I decided I was going to use this year to heal from what happened 25 years ago. I started working on my book about my life which helped me get out some emotions that I kept bottled in. I also started listening to more self-awareness audio books like Healing Trauma by Peter Levine.


Last week I had a series of surgical procedures to help with my nose breathing. I had a severe deviated septum which was causing a blockage of airflow in my nostrils. For so many years of my life, I struggled with sleeping at night, staying up during the day, breathing during my workouts and while I sing or perform.


This surgery was supposed to be a positive life changing experience for me because this whole time I have not been breathing properly. Tomorrow, I see my surgeon for a follow up appointment and I also will see how my breathing has changed since my surgery last week. I am very excited about this and my new breathing so I decided to add a new waist bead on my body to invite new positive energy into my life before I see my doctor.


I have faith that my surgeon did everything properly and also believe this will be a new life experience for me. We don’t think about something simple as breathing through your nose having such a negative impact on life. Well the struggle has finally come to an end! I am ready for this new healthy lifestyle.


The new waist bead that I added after my surgery have the following colors to represent the following energy:


Orange for passion, creativity and sexuality


Blue for communication and openness.


Green for love, forgiveness and growth.


Red for strength, grounding and stability.


Purple for higher knowledge and spirituality


I keep you all updated as I continue my new journey of life.


Love Always,

-Malon Mahotiere


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WRITTEN BY: Moon



Brothers: If you think waist beads are for ladies only, think again.


The waist beads your woman wears is as much for your pleasure as it is for hers. In a sense they are the perfect gift – they are beautiful, spiritual, cultural and lovingly reciprocal. When she wears waist beads for herself, she’s giving you a gift; when she wears waist beads for you, she’s giving a gift to herself.  And while the same can be said for other types of  jewelry, few have the same sensual appeal as waist beads.

Here’s what waist beads do for you:


1) They make your woman FEEL more beautiful as the energy the gemstones exudes a subtle positive influence.


2) They make your woman LOOK more beautiful; waist beads are stunningly seductive along the curves of her body, against the glow of her skin.


3) Gemstone waist beads add to her spiritual armor, protecting her and keeping her safe from negativity when you are not around. And if she is pregnant, her waist beads are literally guarding your family.


4) They are a part of your racial memory. The oldest African jewelry ever discovered was found in 2004, in the Blombos cave on the southern tip of South Africa.  They are 40 mollusc shell beads that had been pierced and are estimated  over 75,000 years old.  Women are seen wearing waist beads on the walls of the pyramids in Egypt, but it’s hard to say when they were first introduced into our culture. However, it’s certain they have always played a large role in seduction and romance between the sexes.


Even today.  The Nation, a newspaper of the Republic of  Malawi, recently discussed the merits of waist beads among market women, who opined that every young woman should have waist beads to keep her husband aroused during foreplay. In the article, the women went on describe the hidden meanings of waist beads colors, from black, which means “not tonight I have a headache,” to blue and green, meaning “all systems are go.”

In her book, “Sacred Woman,”  Queen Afua  writes among the 17th century Saramaka people, a woman would give her  scented waist beads to her husband as a symbol of her intended fidelity when he went away for long periods of time. That certainly beats a photo on your cellphone!


5) From a dozen years experience in this craft, I kid you not when I say there are few women who would not be moved when a man selects and purchases a set of waist beads for her. It is more creative than flowers, sexier than lingerie, and more personal than most other jewelry.


As you can see the benefits are multiple. For superior quality and beauty, try Wrap and Soul gemstone waistbeads.


For those of you who are wondering whether a man can wear waist beads – yes, I do get asked that question – the answer is: It depends.


I was once talked into making waist beads for a very persistent older brother. He selected the beads and stones, the symbols, gave me his measurements and drew up the design. I knew that some African men do wear beads and belts around their waists, so the concept was not completely strange to me. But, as I pointed out to him, those men wore little or no clothing at all. The idea of waist beads UNDER modern pants or jeans, seemed a little odd.


Nevertheless I made them, presented them to him and he was thrilled.

A month later I met him on the street with his waist beads on – around his neck! When I commented on his “necklace,” he looked at me rather sheepishly. “As waist beads, they just kept getting in the way,” he said.

I replied:   “That’s because the real pleasure you get from waist beads is from the woman who’s wearing them.”


So men, are you curious about the waist beads we have available for you and the woman in your life, visit our website to see what we have to offer.


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